Friday, April 15, 2016

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M? Making Milk Magical...

I have seen these tricks on Pinterest but have never tried them myself...UNTIL NOW!!!

These were so easy and so rewarding because Liam did the entire thing himself and was ASTONISHED!!!


FIRST TRICK - MAKE THE PEPPER RUN!!

You'll Need:
  • Pepper
  • Milk
  • Bowl
  • Dish Soap
  • Excited Kiddo - at least one!

 Step one:

Pour the milk

 Step two:

Shake in a bunch of pepper....he liked this already!

Step three:

Insert your index finger - NOTHING HAPPENS




Step four:

While distracting your audience with some magic words and hand waving, dab a little soap on the index finger of the free hand (I put a few drops on the small lid beside the bowl).



Dip your finger in and TA-DA! The pepper runs like boys from soap!



SECOND TRICK - MAKE COLORS RUN!!

You'll Need:
  • Milk
  • Plate
  • Paint
  • Dish Soap
  • Eager Kiddo



 Step One:


Pour the Milk

Step two:                                                   Add the colors                                                     - food coloring or watercolors




 Step three:


Admire your beautiful artwork!

 Step four:

Add a drop or two of dish soap

Wait for the OOOOOs and AHHHs

Liam said,"OH WOW!!! THAT'S SO COOL!!"


And then......

added more soap - because if one drop was cool surely more would be AMAZING!!



Let me know if you do these tricks and what your kiddos think! 
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How Our Sons are Learning to Survive after the Death of Their Big Brother


There is no manual for grieving a sibling as a child, trust me I've searched for one! It's just not that common, I guess, and it shouldn't be!



Children think they are invincible and damn it, they should! They are entitled to being delusional. These are the same people who think they can become superheroes. They have no clue how this big awful world really operates. They are focusing on big stuff, you know like what's in my lunchbox today and what are we going to play at recess.

Our boys are dealing learning to cope with life after their 16 year old big brother died suddenly.


That guy who was always hogging the Xbox, he's just gone. The dude they looked to for what was cool, he's not on the computer anymore. The culinary genius who brought us treats like the "Co Co Burger" (Liam called him Co Co as a baby, they made burgers with damn near everything on it, bologna, spam, anything it was beyond gross), he's not destroying the kitchen.

How do we, as parents, explain the unexplainable? I mean we are supposed to have ALL of the answers. And believe me, they want answers, they are quite direct with their questions and concerns.

We have done the counselor thing. I'm not sure how helpful that was for either of them. Logan didn't want to be on a schedule with his emotions, which brought the therapist to the conclusion that he was avoiding acceptance of Connor's death. But come on, who wants to be told, okay Monday, Wednesday and Friday from 3-4 you need to be ready to talk about all of the horrible things your dealing with all day everyday. I think he saw it more as an opportunity to hang out and play with an adult who had complete focus on him. Who can blame him? Eventually, Logan decided he didn't want to continue going. So, we stopped.

Now, 7 months after Connor's death, Logan's emotions have come right up to the surface. I think he was being strong for us, now he is confronted with the magnitude of it all. He keeps telling me he's never going to forget Connor, I know. He cries uncontrollably telling me how unfair it all is, I know. He can't focus at school because no one understands him anymore, I know.

How can I help him, we are all so broken.


Our lives will never be the same. Our future, their future is now and forever changed.

So, somehow we are forging through each day. They are looking to us to show them how.....because we are supposed to know. We don't know and I really freaking wish we weren't being forced to learn!

If you have ANY tips, I'm all ears! Please share with me!!!

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Thursday, April 14, 2016

Run Baby runner's belt is NOT just for running!

I really love my yoga pants....also called soft pants... also called stretch pants...also called mommy just doesn't give a damn pants...whatever you call them, you know what I'm talking about.

So, I REALLY love my yoga pants problem is no pockets! I need pockets for just the bare necessities. I must have my phone, my debt card and my keys. I like to take the dog for walks but its difficult to walk our horse of a dog and hold my phone.

This runner's belt is the answer to my problems! I love that it blends in with the pants and just looks like the top of them and not like a big ole fanny pouch - EWWW!

The belt is adjustable - awesome! 

It is very stretchy so it holds everything securley.

It comes in several color options - I got orange, not sure why, but I like it!

Check it out on Amazon.

I received this product for free in exchange for my honest opinion.

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Wednesday, April 13, 2016

Superhero City Scene completed!

When I started redesigning our boys' room I knew it had to have a super hero theme. My guys love everything super hero related, so there was no going wrong!
I spent countless hours searching the internet for some sort of direction. I really was hoping to find a diagram or something that would REALLY dumb the process up for me.
 
I soon came to accept that I was going to have to wing it.  I have never done anything like this before. I mean, I've painted walls, lots of walls, but never anything that required any level of creativity.
I started at the doorway, and with my roll or painters tape, I started taping off buildings. There was no rhyme or reason to it, I just tried to make them different sizes and through in random shaped buildings. I had the grey paint left from painting their beds. I mixed some to make some of the buildings darker and some lighter. We had this pass through that we cut into the wall that I wanted to incorporate into the super hero theme. It is far from perfect, but it was the last thing I did and honestly, I was kinda over the entire thing.
 
Once I had the buildings completed, I used yellow and white paint to add windows. Again, no rhyme or reason, I just picked places here and there and threw up a window. I also used some glow in the dark paint but they never seem to glow. I guess they never get enough bright light to juice them up.
 
 
This took FOREVER. I was anxious and wanted to see the final product. Through the entire ordeal (yes, it was an ordeal) I never felt confident that I would like it. I actually was quite confident that even after the painstaking hours that I had put into this project, I would likely be painting over the entire thing.
 
I added Superman like beacons with Liam and Logan's names in each one. That was a HUGE pain in the butt! The angled wall made it difficult to paint the oval and names. My arms were KILLING me!!
 
ABCmouse.comThe final touch was adding silhouettes of superheroes.  I was able to find these online, with  some patience and a lot of time.  Liam helped me figure out just the right place for each hero.
In the end, TOTALLY worth it. They LOVE it. So, I LOVE it! Liam likes to makes up stories with each of the heroes. Logan likes to hang in his hammock and pretend he is flying over the city.
If you are considering tackling something like this, I say, GO FOR IT!! If you have any questions, let me know, I'm glad to help anyone bring this happiness to their lil' superhero!



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Tuesday, April 12, 2016

How We are Helping Our 8 year old with Sensory Processing Disorder


Our eight year old, Logan is funny, smart and loving. Oh, your kids area too? They all are, right?

He is also unpredictable, impulsive and irrational at times.

He was diagnosed with SPD when he was three.

He was (and still is) hypersensitive to temperature. When he showers, the water is COLD.
He is easily stressed in new environments or when his schedule becomes unpredictable.
He gets upset by loud noises.
He becomes overwhelmed around large groups of people.

I had never heard of Sensory Processing Disorder, but I knew something was not right. He was not a typical three year old. I knew that he was struggling.


Fuzzy Buzzy Groups for Children with Developmental and Sensory Processing Difficulties Outsiders looked down their noses at us and wondered why he was hiding under a table at family gatherings. People don't understand just how intense these experiences are for a kid with SPD.

They don't want to be different. When someone just wants a hug, they don't realize to Logan it is very invasive. If he isn't comfortable, it can't happen.



We knew that the one and only place that we could control and provide him comfort, safety and the predictability that he needs was at home.

I started researching the different things that we could incorporate in our home. Guess what I found, its all REALLY expensive!!

I went on the hunt to figure out what I could DIY.

Here's a list of what we've done:



  • Sensory discovery bottle- Logan found little figures and random characters to add to the bottle.  We also added glitter and blue food coloring. I filled it 2/3 with water and the rest with oil. The result is a lava lamp like swirly action. It provides him with a cool down period when he gets overwhelmed while he watches the glitter and goodies drop.


  • Body sock - I purchased this online. It was the best $35 ever spent.
  • Sit and spin
  • Trampoline
  • Swing
  • Slide
  • Happily hop Ball
  • Slime, goop, sand, rice
  • Chew necklace
  • Aromatherapy


I took them to a fabric shop and let them pick out the fabric they liked (it had to be stretchy to work). 

They LOVE these things!!

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At Least You Have....

When we suffered the loss of one of  our twins at 4 days old, people actually said to us, "at least you have one of them." As if that was somehow comforting. What does that even mean? I wanted to ask them which of their children they thought was disposable. They were two completely separate people.

Exclusive Mother's Day Flowers I had to come to understand that it was just something people say for the lack of something to say. As completely stupid as it was to say to a mom, I had to let it go in one ear and out the other.

Now after Connor's death, hearing, "at least you have your other boys," was somehow completely different.

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